Here are so ideas I have to blog about over the next year or so. These are about the ceremony:
emotions come out in one of two ways; laughter/tears.where to look
how to hold hands1/2 way onwhere to lookdon’t force“turn his hand over”untie rings from pillows:Place them in my hand.couple takes it out of my hand
how to light it with a sandwich approachdripping candleswhat to do with two tapers after they are litextra lighter up frontexplain to those lighting it how to use lighterwhere to place the table on which it sits
too much sand – left over sand, spilled outnot enough sandwindy day, sand blows – blue sand on white dressuse water as a templetpracticealternate sand pouringopening of containers.don’t pour easywhat to do with container after the ceremony for transport
where to look – at hands and each other.
short but not too short, maybe 2 seconds.Lipstick!
Turn and face gathered: introduction
Music after the intro.Not all want to be introduced.